The Many Benefits, for Kids, of Playing Video Games | Psychology Today
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/freedom-learn/201201/the-many-benefits-kids-playing-video-games
It is always a mistake, I think, to tell kids what they must or must not do, except in those cases where you are telling them that they must do their share of the chores around the house or must not do things that hurt you or other people. Whenever we prevent our kids from playing or exploring in the ways they prefer, we place another brick in a barrier between them and us. We are saying, in essence, “I don’t trust you to control your own life.” Children are suffering today not from too much computer play or too much screen time. They are suffering from too much adult control over their lives and not enough freedom
