• #Mary_Kay_Fain : L’identité non-binaire est la nouvelle façon de se dire « différente des autres filles », et elle est profondément misogyne.
    https://tradfem.wordpress.com/2020/02/20/lidentite-non-binaire-est-la-nouvelle-facon-de-se-dire-%e2%80%89d

    À l’été 2018, j’ai vécu dans une maison avec trois autres femmes. Nous avons passé beaucoup de temps ensemble cette année-là, avec de nombreuses conversations nocturnes à propos du sexisme, de la misogynie, et de la violence masculine que nous avions connue. Nous avons discuté du fait de ne pas trouver notre place dans les attentes de la société envers les femmes, nous avons cessé de nous raser en même temps, et nous nous sommes mutuellement encouragées à ne pas être honteuses de notre corps au naturel. Nous avons contacté des centres d’aide aux victimes de viol, organisé des protestations, et dénoncé des hommes violents au sein de nos communautés. Mitali* s’est rasé la tête en un acte de rébellion contre les standards de beauté indiens. Joy* a trouvé en elle le pouvoir d’utiliser sa voix en faveur des opprimées. Miriam* a commencé à tenir tête à ses parents religieux et à accepter sa sexualité. Nous avons rêvé toutes les quatre de ce à quoi un monde féministe pourrait ressembler, et envisagé nos vies, libres du patriarcat et de la violence.

    Aujourd’hui, un an plus tard, chacune de ces trois amies s’identifie comme « non-binaire » — et non plus comme femme.

    Selon le groupe de pression Human Rights Campaign, non-binaire est « un adjectif qui décrit une personne qui ne s’identifie pas exclusivement comme un homme ou une femme. Les personnes non-binaires peuvent s’identifier comme étant à la fois un homme et une femme, quelque part entre les deux, ou complètement en dehors de ces catégories. »

    Mais alors, comment trois femmes féministes qui défiaient bravement les normes du genre et affrontaient la violence masculine dans leurs vies en sont-elles venues à décider soudainement qu’elles étaient des non-femmes ?

    Traduction : Cécilia L. pour #Tradfem
    Version originale : https://medium.com/4th-wave-feminism/non-binary-is-the-new-not-like-other-girls-and-its-deeply-rooted-in-misogyny
    #queer #non-binaire #féminisme

  • ‘The Only Woman in the Room’ Demonstrates the Maddening Tragedy of Brilliant Women
    https://medium.com/4th-wave-feminism/the-only-woman-in-the-room-demonstrates-the-maddening-tragedy-of-brilliant-w

    I was mad because Hedy Lamarr, the subject of the book, was never truly vindicated. She was beaten and broken down by the patriarchy, and it seems the patriarchy won. I was mad for her, and for every other woman like her throughout history whose stories we would never know.

    Benedict’s fictionalized account of Lamarr’s life shows us sides of the actress of which few are aware. Her mysterious past as the wife of a Nazi arms dealer, victim of domestic violence, war refugee, and scientist paints a picture of a brilliant mind that was stifled by the strict gender roles of the time. To this day, she is still known by most as only a pretty face.

    The story opens with Hedy as a young actress in Vienna in 1933 (known by her birth name, Keisler, at the time). Hedy was doggedly pursued by Friedrich “Fritz ”Mandl, an Austrian arms dealer. When Hedy married Fritz in an effort to protect her Jewish family during the coming war, she had little idea what she was truly getting into.

    Hedy found herself in an abusive marriage with one of the most powerful arms dealers in the region. He kept her locked away, only allowed to leave with his permission. Her sole purpose in the house was to come out during his important meetings with Austrian and Italian officials and serve as eye candy, her silent beauty underscoring Fritz’s power.

    During these meetings, Hedy learned secrets about the weapons systems that would eventually be used by the Third Reich against her own people. When Fritz, previously on the side of Austrian independence, surrendered to the Nazis and agreed to sell his munitions to Hitler, Hedy fled — taking their secrets with her to Hollywood. There, she dropped her German and Jewish heritage and became known as Hedy Lamarr: movie star.

    In 1940, using the knowledge she had gained in Austria, Lamarr and composer George Antheil invented a frequency-hopping system designed to allow remote torpedos to avoid enemy frequency jamming. This invention solved a major problem facing the U.S. Navy and was patented with a Top Secret classification in 1942. The Navy, however, refused to use it.

    The invention was essentially ignored until after the war, when the Navy used it in developing a “sonobuoy” system. From there, according to NPR, “the whole system just spread like wildfire.” In 1985 it was declassified.

    Spread-spectrum technology, as it came to be called, laid the groundwork for most of today’s wireless communication systems.

    It wasn’t until the 1990s, over fifty years after she submitted her invention for patenting, that she finally received credit. Supposedly, when she was called by the Electronic Frontier Foundation and informed that she was receiving the Pioneer Award for her work, she responded, “Well, it’s about time.”

    She was absolutely right.

    In fact, Lamarr’s story made me wonder if brilliant women are doomed to a particular type of patriarchal tragedy.

    Like Charlie, the narrator in Daniel Keys’ short story Flowers for Algernon, brilliant women are not only doomed to have their contributions rejected and ignored in a man’s world, but also to watch the withering and wasting away of their own intelligence. Women like Lamarr have front-row tickets to their own tragedy, fully aware of the impacts of the loss of their potential both on themselves and society.

    The headline in The Economic Times read: “Indian-American MIT Prof Abhijit Banerjee and wife wins Nobel in Economics.”

    Duflo is the second woman ever to win the Nobel prize in economics, and the youngest ever to do so. She has a PhD in economics from MIT, where she is now one of the youngest professors to have been awarded tenure.

    Cette #invisibilisation, c’est pas ça qui arriverait chez nous, cocorico, puisqu’elle est française et qu’on l’a bien remarqué !

    How many inventors, engineers, or economists are still trapped in a female body, never to be allowed out?

    #HERstory #Hedy_Lamarr #science #women_in_science

  • My Partner Thinks He’s More Aware of Danger Than Me
    https://medium.com/4th-wave-feminism/my-partner-thinks-hes-more-aware-of-danger-than-me-ac2fc10bee14

    For men like my partner who grew up in idyllic suburbs with forest trails, dog parks, and man-made lakes — the idea of “danger” must feel pretty foreign, isolated primarily to the cities or the Bad Part of Town™.

    For women, the group of people considered “dangerous” is much more ubiquitous, and there’s no part of town where you can avoid it.

    #femmes #fémicide #féminicide #violences_de_genre