miniature histories and a memoir of the dollhouse

/my-dollhouse-myself-miniature-histories

  • miniature histories and a memoir of the dollhouse - The Feminist Wire
    http://thefeministwire.com/2013/08/my-dollhouse-myself-miniature-histories

    The flood ruined my family’s possessions we had stored there, our suitcase, our boxes of books, photographs and papers. For a week, my parents stayed up late in the basement every night, throwing away soaked cardboard boxes and piling our ruined possessions into garbage bags. The dollhouse was the only object in our basement on Galvez Street to survive the flood.

    The 1978 flood was nothing like the flood that would come later, the flood that would drown New Orleans in August 2005, leaving the whole city underwater. The levees did not break. The river did not crack the floodwalls. Now that I am adult, I can imagine what these days were like for my parents, doing the grim work of mopping and cleaning a basement in a house that did not belong to them, while realizing their own belongings that they thought were safe in boxes and on shelves were destroyed. But at the time all I cared about, with typical childhood selfishness, was my dollhouse.

    Nothing could be saved.

    Except the dollhouse.

    To me, the dollhouse surviving dry and intact was proof of its magic. And of my mother’s magic and her ability to control the world: she’d built me my own house, which I believed would never be destroyed. My mother made me a perfect miniature universe that stayed safe when the rest of the world collapsed.

    #maison_de_poupées

  • Miniature histories and a memoir of the dollhouse - The Feminist Wire
    http://thefeministwire.com/2013/08/my-dollhouse-myself-miniature-histories

    Magnifique texte à propos de la sensibilité aux « petites choses » que se transmettent beaucoup de femmes (évoquée dans le chap. 2 de « Beauté fatale » :
    http://www.editions-zones.fr/spip.php?page=lyberplayer&id_article=149#chap02
    ... et sur son ambiguïté.

    In this dollhouse, there is a plastic family of four: a mother, father and two children, a middle class 1950s family, the kind the girls have watched on television. The dollhouse daughters do not share a room and sleep in a bed with their grandmother, as my mother and her sister do. The dollhouse couches are not covered in plastic to keep them safe, no one cooks strudel and goulash and noodle casserole with cottage cheese in the dollhouse kitchen. No one whispers prayers over her Croatian Bible at night.

    The dollhouse furniture Eddie gives the girls will help them make an entirely new life, one that has nothing to do with their immigrant past.

    #femmes #enfance