’My Husband Says My Vagina is Too Loose Since Chemo’ - Ask Polly
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Dear Polly,
I am four years post breast cancer treatment, bilateral mastectomy, reconstruction, chemo, radiation, and now hormone therapy. I was 51 when I was diagnosed and am now 55. I haven’t had sex with my husband in two years. We finally had “the discussion” and he tells me that my vagina is too loose since the chemo.
Now, when we did have intercourse two years ago, it was painful so I did relax my vagina and we used a lot of lubrication. I know he didn’t find it “good” like previously, but neither did I.
I am hoping to see a gynecologist about this. I don’t want to use estrogen cream as my breast cancer was hormone positive. I have tried multiple moisturizers with little effect. I kind of feel he is being a real jerk but I am glad he was “honest” with me.
Any advice?
Too Loose